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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Changing Your Behavior
When I find great things I like to share and this was an awesome piece.
Changing Your Behavior

by Rick Warren

Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts. Proverbs 4:23 (GNT)
One of the great psychological discoveries of the past century is that your thoughts control your actions.If you want to change the way you act, you must first change how you think.

Actually, thousands of years ago, Solomon pointed this out when he wrote, “Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts” (Proverbs 4:23 GNT).

The Bible says our thoughts influence six areas of our lives:
· My interpretation influences my situation. It’s not what happens to me that matters as much as how I choose to see it. The way I react will determine whether the circumstance makes me better or bitter. I can view everything as an obstacle or an opportunity for growth – a stumbling block or a stepping stone. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4 NIV).

· My impressions influence my depressions. In other words, my mind affects my mood; my thinking determines my feelings. If I’m feeling depressed, it’s because I’m choosing to think depressing thoughts – about my work, family, or anything else. While you cannot always control a feeling, you can choose what you think about, which will control how you feel.“Hear me and answer me. My thoughts trouble me and I am distraught . . .”(Psalm 55:2 NIV).

· My beliefs influence my behavior. We always act according to our beliefs, even when those ideas are false. For instance, as a child, if you believed a shadow in your bedroom at night was a monster, your body reacted in fear (adrenaline and jitters) even though it wasn’t true. That’s why it’s so important to make sure you are operating on true information! Your convictions about yourself, about life, and about God influence your conduct.“If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples” (John 8:31 NIV).

· My self-talk influences my self-esteem. You are constantly talking to yourself unconsciously. When you walk into a room full of strangers, what do you tend to think about yourself? To develop more confidence you’re going to have to stop running yourself down! “Ashe thinks in his heart, so is he”(Proverbs 23:7 NKJV).

· My attitude influences my ability. Winners expect to win. Your perception controls your performance. Mohammed Ali only lost two fights in his career. Before both of them, he said something that he hadn’t said before other fights: “If I should lose this fight […].”“All things are possible to him who believes” (Mark 9:23 NKJV).

· My imagination influences my aspirations. In other words, your dreams determine your destiny. To accomplish anything, you must first have a mission, a goal, a hope, a vision. “Where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18 KJV).



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9:42 am cdt 

Monday, October 6, 2008

Seasons
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 says:
To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep and a time to cast away;
A time to rent, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. 

The words of these scriptures jump off the page at me.  The bible tells us that for everything there is a season.  Knowing that its coming, does it make it easier for us to handle?  It should but I know it doesn't.  We're human and we get weak.  How much pressure can you handle before you break?  And when you break what do you do to pull yourself together?

You have those driving forces or people in your life that will try to frustrate you and when they frustrate you they frustrate your world.  But you must understand that our problems and frustrations have a purpose.  God won't remove those problems and frustrations as long as our flesh is weak.  Think about the last time you dealt with something; anything...Did you make a decision while you were hurting the most?  Did that decision turn out to make things better or worse?  Nine times out of ten things got worse!  What tends to happen when we make a decision while we're in pain or when we're suffering, we forget to turn to God first.  We often times think that the best decision is that right now decision.  We don't want to wait on God to tell us what to do next.  We allow our hurts to hinder us but as a child of God we need to learn how to let them help us.  Ask what to do before you attempt, ask the right person (God), ask the right questions and last but not least wait on Him to answer!

God Bless!
Anita
8:31 am cdt 


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